Healing The Mother Wound
Hi everybody,
We have been talking about what kind of things hold a long-standing issue in place. For some it is an unconscious or conscious issue with a parent. Today we’re going to talk about the Mother. This strategy can work with anyone with whom we have an old issue to clear.
One of the things that holds a mother issue in place is that we actually love our mothers. Even when the relationship is challenged there is love. This can make it confusing and sometimes clients feel guilty expressing issues because they don’t want to hurt their parent.
Here are Some Easy and Effective Tools for You to Use
- Set two chairs (imaginary or real) in front of you and in your imagination ask the mom you love to sit in one chair, and the mom you are upset with to sit in the other. It’s the same person obviously but you have two feelings. Let yourself and your inner child see that it’s ok to have both feelings and that those feelings are separate and independent of each other.
- Having both feelings wrapped up together can create a double bind where you find it hard clear the situation. Separating the feelings untangles them so that you can allow and work on each feeling independently. This honors the love, and that there is residual trauma, programming or an issue still in your field.
- You can now dialogue with your mom on each of these chairs. Express your love to your loving mom. Then move to the mom on the second chair and begin your work clearing the issue. If you are so inclined ask your Spirit Guides, Angels and Nature Helpers to help you.
- In addition to expressing your feelings, it may important to move back to the root cause of the issue, often a childhood event. There we clear and recreate the experience with a more loving outcome, grow up the child with the new outcome and integrate your child into your current self. This creates integration, cohesion, wholeness and healing.
- Use a Scroll. If you feel incomplete, imagine a scroll that you can write on. Write a letter to your mom. Write down everything you want your mom to know and hear including your love and including any transgressions. Imagine her Higher Self standing behind her and hand the scroll to her Higher Self or lay the scroll at her Higher Self’s feet.
- Ask her Higher Self to deliver the message anytime that your mom is open to hearing it, even if it is after she passes to the other side and even she has already passed. The message will be delivered for you, lovingly, in right timing, when she is receptive and open to receiving the message.
I wish you so much love,
Dawn
Dawn Lianna M.A. NLP
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